The Council
An invite-only dinner where women speak truthfully in a confidential, curated space. Each gathering is designed to reveal insight, challenge silence, and bring forward the intelligence women carry but rarely voice.
Seats are limited.
Selection is intentional.
The room is protected.
What Happens Inside
A Curated Table
A small circle chosen for voice, presence, and perspective.
No introductions.
No performance.
No hierarchy.
A Protected Space
We follow the Chatham House Rule.
Themes may be shared.
Identities never are.
The camera stays on the host only.
Guided Conversation
The dinner moves through three rounds:
• Personal truth
• Cultural truth
• Future truth
Short answers.
Equal airtime.
No cross-talk.
No shrinking.
What the Council Produces
Each Council creates a body of cultural intelligence that shapes our public work.
From every gathering, we produce:
Core Themes
The truths women return to again and again.
Cultural Patterns
The behaviors, beliefs, and dynamics shaping women’s lives.
Insight Statements
Clear sentences naming the deeper truth beneath the stories.
Shifts
What changed in the room.
What became undeniable.
What moved.
Questions for the Culture
The questions we must ask publicly to push the conversation forward.
Reflection from the Host
A video or written interpretation of the night’s intelligence.
Nothing personal is shared.
No identities.
No stories.
Only the truth that deserves a wider audience.
The women remain protected.
The insight moves outward.
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