The Council

An invite-only dinner where women speak truthfully in a confidential, curated space. Each gathering is designed to reveal insight, challenge silence, and bring forward the intelligence women carry but rarely voice.

Seats are limited.
Selection is intentional.
The room is protected.

What Happens Inside

A Curated Table

A small circle chosen for voice, presence, and perspective.
No introductions.
No performance.
No hierarchy.

A Protected Space

We follow the Chatham House Rule.
Themes may be shared.
Identities never are.
The camera stays on the host only.

Guided Conversation

The dinner moves through three rounds:

Personal truth
Cultural truth
Future truth

Short answers.
Equal airtime.
No cross-talk.
No shrinking.

What the Council Produces

Each Council creates a body of cultural intelligence that shapes our public work.
From every gathering, we produce:

Core Themes

The truths women return to again and again.

Cultural Patterns

The behaviors, beliefs, and dynamics shaping women’s lives.

Insight Statements

Clear sentences naming the deeper truth beneath the stories.

Shifts

What changed in the room.
What became undeniable.
What moved.

Questions for the Culture

The questions we must ask publicly to push the conversation forward.

Reflection from the Host

A video or written interpretation of the night’s intelligence.

Nothing personal is shared.
No identities.
No stories.
Only the truth that deserves a wider audience.

The women remain protected.
The insight moves outward.

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